CyberShield Kids • Module 1 • Lesson 1.4

Trusted Adults

In this lesson, students learn when to pause, step away, and ask a trusted adult for help. Asking for help is not getting in trouble. It is a smart cyber safety habit.

What You Will Learn

By the end of this lesson, students should be able to:

Name trusted adults who can help with online safety.
Recognize warning signs that mean it is time to ask for help.
Understand that asking for help is responsible, not embarrassing.
Use a pause-step-away-ask habit when something online feels wrong.

Safety Reminder

Students should not handle unsafe situations alone.

If something online feels scary, confusing, secret, urgent, mean, or unsafe, students should pause and ask a trusted adult. CyberShield should always encourage safe help-seeking, not hiding problems.

Simple Explanation

Who is a trusted adult?

A trusted adult is a grown-up who helps keep students safe. Trusted adults can help students decide whether a website, game, message, popup, link, or online situation is safe. Students should never feel like they have to solve confusing online problems by themselves.

Parent or guardian
Teacher
School counselor
Librarian
Coach
School technology staff member

Key Vocabulary

Words to know

Trusted adult

A grown-up who helps keep students safe, such as a parent, guardian, teacher, counselor, or school technology staff member.

Warning sign

Something that tells you to slow down, pause, and ask for help before continuing.

Uncomfortable

A feeling that something is strange, wrong, scary, confusing, or unsafe.

Report

To tell a trusted adult about something unsafe, hurtful, strange, or suspicious.

Warning Signs

When should students ask for help?

Students should ask for help when something online feels strange or unsafe. These warning signs are examples of moments when it is smart to pause and talk to a trusted adult.

Someone online asks you to keep a secret from your family or teacher.
A website, game, popup, or message asks for private information.
A message says you must click quickly or you will lose a prize.
Someone sends a message that feels scary, mean, confusing, or uncomfortable.
A stranger online asks where you live, what school you go to, or when you are home.
A website or app asks for a password when you do not understand why.

Safe and Unsafe Choices

Practice choosing when to ask.

These are safe, fake examples. Students should use them to practice knowing when to pause, step away, and ask for help.

Safer choice

A student sees a strange popup and asks a parent or teacher before clicking anything.

Unsafe choice

A student keeps talking to a stranger online after the stranger asks where they live.

Safer choice

A student tells a trusted adult when someone online asks them to keep a secret.

Think About It

Why is asking for help a strong choice?

Online problems can be confusing. A trusted adult may notice warning signs that a student does not see yet. Asking for help can protect private information, accounts, feelings, and safety.

Discussion Question

What are three online situations where a student should ask a trusted adult for help?

What To Do In Real Life

Use the pause-step-away-ask habit.

Pause when something online feels strange, scary, confusing, urgent, secret, or unsafe.
Step away from the device if you feel uncomfortable or pressured.
Do not reply to people who ask for private information or tell you to keep secrets.
Do not click suspicious buttons, popups, links, or downloads.
Tell a trusted adult what happened and show them the message, popup, game, app, or website if it is safe to do so.

Mini Practice

What should the student do?

Read each situation and think about the safest next step.

Practice 1

A game message says, 'Tell me your school name, but do not tell your parents.' What should you do?

Safer answer

Do not answer. This is a warning sign because the message asks for private information and asks you to keep a secret. Tell a trusted adult.

Practice 2

A popup says you won a free prize and must click quickly. What should you do?

Safer answer

Pause and ask a trusted adult before clicking. Urgent prize messages can be unsafe or fake.

Practice 3

Someone in a class chat is being mean to another student. What is a safer choice?

Safer answer

Do not join in. Step away and tell a teacher, counselor, or another trusted adult.

Practice 4

You feel confused about a website asking for your password. What should you do?

Safer answer

Do not type the password until a trusted adult helps you check if the website is safe and expected.

Review Checklist

Before moving to the Module 1 review, students should be able to say:

I can name trusted adults who can help me.
I can explain why asking for help is a smart safety habit.
I can recognize warning signs like secrets, pressure, private questions, and scary messages.
I can pause before clicking, replying, or sharing information.
I can tell a trusted adult when something online feels wrong.

Lesson Navigation

Continue to the Module 1 review.

Next, students will review personal information, private information, safe usernames, and trusted adult safety habits.